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9 Best Sites For Free Erotica

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We want to send a very BIG THANK YOU to Emma McGowan for including us on her short list of “9 Best Sites for Free Erotica, Because Porn Doesn’t Cut It For Some of Us“!!!!

Lo and I were away for a long weekend (new steamy stories will be posted at a later date) and when we got back we found, to our great surprise, a spike in our daily hits.  When looking over the stats, we discovered why – because we were in this article from Bustle.com.

We had not heard of Bustle before, but we sure will be checking it out.

We also want to congratulate the other great blogs listed – some of whom we’ve followed for years.  Congrats to:

Girl On The Net

Bree Guilford

and

Greta of Filled and Fooled

In addition to these long-time friends, there are three new authors for us to discover as well as one of Lo’s favorite places for masturbatory indulgences:

Literotica.com

Lastly, we would greatly appreciate it if you would take the time to vote for us as one of 2015’s Best Sex Blogs over at Kinkly.com  Here’s the link to vote in one simple click!  They say you only have until October 8.

And if you could nominate us for Rori’s Between My Sheets Top Sex Bloggers for 2015 as well, we’d really appreciate it!

Thanks so much.

Below is a pic of Lo getting off to literotica.com.  No, it doesn’t make me jealous to see her jillin’ it to some other person’s words.  No, not at all.  What gives you that idea?

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Annual Report

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Well, a lot of our friends are doing it, so we thought we would too – sharing our WP annual report numbers.

Here they are and the first thing we want to say is – THANK YOU!!!  Without you, our readers, these numbers would be non-existent.  We love hearing from you and getting all your lovely photos!

Wishing you all a great 2015!

~ Lo & H.H.

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Bad Girl Bloggers Award

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In the spirit of recreating the blogging community we had back in 2011-2012, we’d like to reintroduce the pay-it-forward format for the “Bad Girl Bloggers Award.”

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Below you will find 25 of the hottest female bloggers (that I know of) who are the initial recipients of this prestigious award.  They are the Best Bad Girls I know of on the net.

RULES: If you are a recipient, please choose 3-5 female bloggers who write about sex (or post sexy pics of them selves, or both) that you admire and award them by passing on the award photo above and the rules.  Also, give a brief explanations of why you love those bloggers so much.  Be sure to notify your favorite bloggers that they got the award!

Thank you and congratulations!  ~ HH & Lola

 

Cara Thereon – http://closed2.wordpress.com – I LOVE Cara’s poetry and her honest periodic updates about her life and state of mind.

 

Same Sassy Girl – http://samesassygirl.blogspot.com – Sassy is in an open marriage and blogs about her various gentleman callers.

 

The Cammy Sisters – http://cammiesonthefloor.com – Two horny sisters who love to write about their various interests.

 

Mistress – http://confessionsofyourhusbandsmistress.wordpress.com – This blog is exactly what it’s title says it is.

 

Vixen – http://vixenincognola.wordpress.com – A sexy woman on a journey to “owning her freak.”

 

The Happy Hotwife – http://thehappyhotwife.blogspot.com – Another perfectly titled blog.

 

Polychick – http://seattlepolychick.com – Exploring the life of a polyamorous woman in Seattle.

 

Tis – http://tispersonal.wordpress.com – A romantic, personal blog with the occasional sexy snap-shot.

 

Penny – http://pennysdirtythoughts.com – A lot of educational sex-toy reviews with a smattering of Penny’s life stories and very artistic erotic photography.

 

Vanillamom – http://vanillamom.wordpress.com – Anything BUT vanilla!

 

Caitlyn – http://lovesexandmarriage.wordpress.com – A long and dear friend who is a great writer and an honest voice.

 

Kat – http://prowlingwithkat.com – A married woman on the prowl.

 

Molly – http://mollysdailykiss.com – If you don’t know Molly, then you really are new around here.  Check her out!

 

Kayla – http://kaylalords.com – The BEST BDSM haiku you’ll ever read!

 

Marian Green – http://creativenoodling.wordpress.com – An incurable romantic, and thank goodness she is!

 

Hy – http://adissolutelifemeans.com – Hy is a complex blogger with complex relationships and a wildly popular BOOBDAY!

 

Scarlett – http://atrueunfolding.com – Some of the most introspective and beautiful writing – about sex and everything else – on the net.

 

Fatal – http://yougotomyhead.wordpress.com – Entering her site is the closest to entering her mind.  Her writing reminds me of the movie “The Cell” – a wordscape of images and emotions that is very powerful.

 

Alice – http://pivoine68.wordpress.com/ – One very beautiful and sexy poet!

 

Greek Girl – http://hornygeekgirl.wordpress.com – Her About pages says “Adventures in Sex” and that about says it all!

 

All the folks at the Outdoor Co-ed Topless Pulp Fiction Appreciation Society – http://coedtoplesspulpfiction.wordpress.com – A brave band of women in NYC who bare their badges of honor on their chests in public and bare it all at the spas and rooftop decks and then post about it on their blog.

 

NSTHW – http://notsotypicalhousewife.wordpress.com – A housewife who loves sex and loves writing about it.

 

Emma – http://www.dirtylittlewhispers.com – Incredibly erotic photography, writing, and frequent sextoy reviews.

 

Ella – http://ellacydawson.wordpress.com – A writer and reviewer who is on the fast track to literary fame.

 

Vic – http://sexualdestinies.blogspot.com – A hotwife who has a libido to rival Lo’s.

Bloggers Old & New

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Connections

Lately a few of our close friends in the blogging community have posted about feeling the loss of our community.  We too have felt it.  We started mysexlifewithlola back in March of 2011.  2011!!!  We can’t believe it.  When we started, somehow – either we found them or they found us – we became part of a blogging family that supported each other and knew each others’ business in a good way.  We, new at this as we were, just thought that that community was around for a while and we were the new arrivals, but it turns out that most of our tight-knit group had all started around the same time.  That group included:

 

Pivoine

Caitlyn

Cara

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Hy

Molly

Marian

Fatal

Sophia

Vic

Scarlett

And, of course, the ringmistress who brought us all together (as a number of you have noted recently), Gillian.

Connecting with me like this is ok too.

Gillian

Unfortunately, when Gillian moved on (for lots of reasons), our group came a bit unraveled.  Three Cheers to Hy for her Boobday incentive to remain connected.  She has done a lot to keep us all connected.  Speaking for us, one thing that really took us out of the loop was the censorship exercised by WordPress when they shut us down.  As we’ve told many of you through e-mail, we no longer can comment on other WP blogs which means that we can’t publicly encourage or show our enthusiasm for all of you great bloggers out there.  It also means that others can’t see that we’re actively reading what you write, so they have no idea we’re part of the circle.

In order to combat all this disconnection, we invite you readers (old and new) to comment here by (Throwback) Thursday.  Just drop us a line saying ‘hi’ or let us know that you’re still in our loop.  Invite others to cum to your blogs.  And generally, try to make this more connected for everyone.  If you’re new and you have a blog or a Tumblr or whatever, let us know.  If you’re one of the “ole timers,” tell us what you’re up to – maybe we have lost touch.  If you’re a fan – check out all the people listed above and (especially for the ones who haven’t blogged in a long time) tell them you want MORE from them!!!  We sure do.

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Thanks so much everyone!

xoxoxo,

 

Lo & HH

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Match, Cinder & Spark for your e-Reader!!!

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Yes, it’s out now!  If you can’t afford the $74.95 price tag of the soft-cover hard-copy edition of Match, Cinder & Spark: Volume I – Nymphomania and the Single Girl, then you can get your own copy of the 29 stories and Lola’s own preface to the work right here:

 

Match, Cinder & Spark, Volume I: Nymphomania and the Single Girl

for only $1.99!!!  Yes, you read that correctly.  One dollar and 99 cents gets you all 92 pages (roughly) direct to your e-reader.

There are no pics in this edition, but you can see those and more here. 

We hope you will treat yourself to this first e-publication of ours and know that you’re supporting this free blog with the pleasure you get from your purchase.

Thanks again!!!

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