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Thanks to all of you!


Lately a few of our close friends in the blogging community have posted about feeling the loss of our community. We too have felt it. We started mysexlifewithlola back in March of 2011. 2011!!! We can’t believe it. When we started, somehow – either we found them or they found us – we became part of a blogging family that supported each other and knew each others’ business in a good way. We, new at this as we were, just thought that that community was around for a while and we were the new arrivals, but it turns out that most of our tight-knit group had all started around the same time. That group included:
And, of course, the ringmistress who brought us all together (as a number of you have noted recently), Gillian.
Connecting with me like this is ok too.

Unfortunately, when Gillian moved on (for lots of reasons), our group came a bit unraveled. Three Cheers to Hy for her Boobday incentive to remain connected. She has done a lot to keep us all connected. Speaking for us, one thing that really took us out of the loop was the censorship exercised by WordPress when they shut us down. As we’ve told many of you through e-mail, we no longer can comment on other WP blogs which means that we can’t publicly encourage or show our enthusiasm for all of you great bloggers out there. It also means that others can’t see that we’re actively reading what you write, so they have no idea we’re part of the circle.
In order to combat all this disconnection, we invite you readers (old and new) to comment here by (Throwback) Thursday. Just drop us a line saying ‘hi’ or let us know that you’re still in our loop. Invite others to cum to your blogs. And generally, try to make this more connected for everyone. If you’re new and you have a blog or a Tumblr or whatever, let us know. If you’re one of the “ole timers,” tell us what you’re up to – maybe we have lost touch. If you’re a fan – check out all the people listed above and (especially for the ones who haven’t blogged in a long time) tell them you want MORE from them!!! We sure do.


Thanks so much everyone!
xoxoxo,
Lo & HH
Yes, it’s out now! If you can’t afford the $74.95 price tag of the soft-cover hard-copy edition of Match, Cinder & Spark: Volume I – Nymphomania and the Single Girl, then you can get your own copy of the 29 stories and Lola’s own preface to the work right here:
for only $1.99!!! Yes, you read that correctly. One dollar and 99 cents gets you all 92 pages (roughly) direct to your e-reader.
There are no pics in this edition, but you can see those and more here.
We hope you will treat yourself to this first e-publication of ours and know that you’re supporting this free blog with the pleasure you get from your purchase.
Thanks again!!!
Lo & HH
“Dear HH and Lola,
Just a quick fan e-mail to say I am so glad you are back. When I saw your site was gone from the internet I lost the will to masturbate and haven’t really done so since – then today in a last ditch sort of attempt, I typed in your web address and poof, there you were!Great writing. Great stories that never fail to turn me on and/or entertain. Great pictures – Lola, you are gorgeous.So just a little thanks for what you do. You were missed (for longer than you were gone for).”
That is an excerpt from a reader’s e-mail that arrived in our in-box TODAY! What better way to endorse our very first publication?!
All the trouble we experienced over the past six months did result in one good thing – we took time to review and edit the first 30 posts from this blog and turn them into 29 chapters along with an introduction from Lola to our first published book:
Volume 1: Nymphomania and the Single Girl
You can purchase this lovely, soft-cover edition with full-color photos of Lo right here:
We know, the price is insanely expensive, but that’s the lowest price we could make it. We don’t even earn any commission on this. So, if you’ve been enjoying our stories for free, now’s your chance to get your own copy.
And don’t worry about remaining anonymous – the transaction is secure and all your information is kept private (we don’t even see it). The book arrives in a nondescript brown cardboard box that only says “Lulu” on it. No one will ever know the contents so you can enjoy the stories at home again and again.
This is a major milestone for this blog and we plan on publishing Volume two in 2014.
Thanks to all of you who encouraged us along the way.
Yours,
Lo & HH