Hot Kiss Award

Well, this is very late in the game, but back in August Tangerine Dey presented us with the “Hot Kiss” award.

 

 

She said: Dear HH, Congratulations, you have been awarded the Hot Kiss Award. As recipient, please Link back to the blogger who nominated you.
Post the award image to your page.
Share 7 facts about yourself. (Not required but fun to do.)
Nominate 15 other blogs and inform them about it.

So, to follow through with the rules:

1.  Here is Tanga’s web page: http://tangerinedey.wordpress.com/

She is a lovely blogger on a range of topics with fiction and poetry included in a nicely laid-out page, easy to navigate, fun to read, always up-beat!  Thank you Tanga.

2.  Posted.

3.  I post so much about Lo and me in the blog I’ll just say, go ahead, read it.  If you need a password, don’t hesitate to send us an e-mail and ask.  (Please don’t just send an e-mail with no heading or content.  We’ll think it’s spam.  Say “Password Please” somewhere in the e-mail and, better yet, tell us about who you are and how you found us!)

4.  I’m so glad to nominate other bloggers, especially since I found so many great ones at Rori’s Between My Sheets nomination page for Top Sex Bloggers List 2012.  (I think that counts as one nomination.)

Here they are:

The Honest Courtesan – Frank commentary from a retired call girl.

One Handed Writers – I think the title says it all.

Guiltless Miss – A lot of hot and steamy writing here!

June: A woman who refuses to admit to being “too sexual.”

Not Changing My Name – Divorcee blogging about dating and so forth.

Love Small Penis – A fun little blog.

Womens Diary – Just what it says.

Vineyard Road – Erotic Stories and Drink Recipes.  What could be a better combination?

Pieces of Jade – A woman with her freak on – and proud of it!

 

I know, that’s only ten, but I’ll ask you, the reader, to nominate (at least) five more blogs in the comments section.  Thanks.

Thank You e(lust)! – We made the TOP THREE!


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~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~

The Bitch is BackThe temperature at the table drops several degrees. “Like that?,” I say. ”Is that what you want?”

On Women Who Like SexI like sex as much as any man I know. I am not a weirdo, I am not a slut, and I am not in any excessive danger.

Secret SecretaryThere she was in the reception room on my couch, lying on her back, legs spread, skirt hiked up over her torso, her hands frantically feeling between her legs.

~ e[lust] Editress ~

Street Harassment: It’s everywhere, all the time

~ Featured Post (Lilly’s Pick) ~

Thoughts: Regarding Limits In BDSM

All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Begin rant
Communication Breakdown
Family Planning
Great Expectation
My Fantasy
Rituals, Symbolism, Kink, and of course ME

Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor

How You Know You Are On The Rag
Intersecting

Kink & Fetish

Anal Slut
Belted
Flogger Use and Safety from a Beginner
Janet’s Magical Toybag
Protest Much?
Property of Seven
Playing With Fire
Please
Tonight I am going to fuck your (slave) ass
The Long-Anticipated Gangbang Post
Welcome To The Club

Erotic Writing

Almost Broken
Alive
A Bad Habit
A Sinner Sits for Sacred Sunday Service
BBQ & Beer
Birthday Sex
Cap D’Agde -spit roast with a stranger
Dirty Talk
Lolita Twenty-Twelve, Part Five
Matched
Oral at a Sex Party
once in a while
Revelation
Random memories: First love
Saturday Morning Pussy
Stress Reliever – Lubed Fingers
The shopping assistant
The Sting of the Crop
You

The LIST Entire

After discovering, to our shock and dismay, that WordPress’ “Blogs We Follow” list only includes the latest 50 blogs followed, we have decided to put together a complete list of blogs we follow, along with pics.  If your blog is below and you have a better pic you would like us to use or a better tag-line, just let us know by e-mailing us: downloladown@gmail.com We hope you all check out this great line-up of bloggers! Here’s the roll (in no special order):

Dawn of Pivoine68 – She is a woman in a similar situation as Lo (May/December relationship), but, unlike Lo, it seems she is not appreciated (or loved or fucked) nearly as much as she deserves to be!  As a result we get to read her beautiful poetry (in French and English!) and her lovely prose.  She is one of my favorite bloggers who always has words of encouragement for everyone (except herself).

Work Spouse Story – India, the “polygamist” is married to two men – her real spouse and her work spouse. If you think that’s complicated, check out her blog.

The Dom Next Door – Follow Scot (Dom) and Leigh (sub) through their journeys to forbidden lands.

Guiltless Miss – Guiltless Miss is just a girl next door with a vivid imagination, a strong personality, and a whole lotta of secret sexy.

Diary of a Cheating Whore – A thirty something wife and mother of 1, who loves her husband and child more than anything in the world.  But, she’s been cheating on her husband for 4 years. This is her story.

CC has two blogs – Undercreativity and Honesty.  The former is supposedly her more “legit” spot and the other her secret shame, but I can’t tell the two apart.  Can you?

Deviant Diaries – After the crushing heartbreak of a divorce, DD discovered that she has an entirely “other side” she never knew about.

The Honest Courtesan – Frank commentary from a retired call girl.

Dirty Little Whispers – L (as in Little Miss) is a photographer and loves to write about her wild romps around Londontown.

Snarky Snatch – For all your snark needs.

Confessions of Your Husband’s Mistress – What every wife needs to know, from the inside out!

A Dissolute Life Means – Hyacinth Jones: Multi-layered, multi-moraled, multi-educated; mother; feminist who wants to be dominated, hard-ass who wants to be coddled; lover of man-on-man lovin’; lover of lovin’.

Words on the Bottom – A hard hitting spanking blog.

These Crazy Words – A blog by Ella Fox who has had her heart broken.

Not Changing My Name – A blog by Rory who is, well, let’s just say she’s not changing her name.

Molly’s Daily Kiss – Be warned, the kiss may be a peck on the cheek or. . . well, you’ve got to check out her page to believe it!

Tempting Sweets – a seductive woman who eagerly wants to tempt with her sweets.

Prowling Kat – Kat is a woman, a temptress, a reader, a lover, a mother, a friend, a boss, a slut, a learner, a voyeur, a performer, a writer, a wife, a cheater, a giver, a taker, a coward, a hero, and a dreamer. I’m also the founder, chief author, and editor of Prowling with Kat.

Body, Remember – All things we remember to forget.

Creative Noodling – Marian Green offers up a fine selection of musings, sexy writing, and fun and games.

Erotic Notebook – A very high-class, high-standards blog about so many things, mostly erotic writing.

Kissin Blue Karen – A swinger who gives you the 411 on swingin’!

The Other Side of Infidelity – A woman who never thought she’d be the other woman tells her tale.

Just Another Rolling Stone – Rebel yells. . . and rants, and fantasizes, and. . . well, read for yourself.

A New Slave – A girl who likes a collar.

Dumb Domme – A woman who is learning the ropes of being a Domme.

Fatal of You Linger Like a Haunting Refrain – In our humble opinion, SEXSATIONAL!  Fatal is Lo’s twin separated at birth.  No other explanation.  If you want a steamy read, click on just about any of her posts.  You won’t regret it, but you may end up in an SLAA meeting with her.  Then watch out!

Sophia of SexualLifeofaWife will make you regret every having uttered a negative thing about married life ‘in general,’ for their specific relationship is hot-as-hell!

Kinky Desoto – Just your all-American middle-aged slut!  And a hell of a good writer.

LoveSexAndMarriage – a wonderful blog by the soul sister of Sophia (from sexuallifeofawife).  Hot, steamy, sexy and funny!

The Story of Alice – Alice’s “secret” diary isn’t so secret here.

Sexual Destinies – Advice, stories, and kink – all in one!  And CUCKOLDING!!!

Bre of Owned, Collared, Loved – a 22 year-old live-in slave of the voluntary variety.

Erotic Explorations – I think the name says it all!

Scarlett Dubois of A True Unfolding is a twenty-something happily married woman who tells it as it is.

Life with Dick-n-Jane – Just what it purports to be and then some.

Lara Catone – a blog about yoga and sexual wellness.

The Erotic Writer – Three Authors who do what they say they do in the title.

Vineyard Road – Cocktails for the body, erotica for the mind.  (Nice tag line, no?)

Deviant Wench – Kinky, Feminist, Submissive.

Diary of a Lolita – A sensual writer with great taste.

Liaisons With Lulu – A Western gal’s erotic adventures in Japan and her open relationship.

La Libertine’s Salon – an on-again, off-again courtesan’s blog.

My Tangerine Days – A writer, photographer, and interesting poet.

Jayne Ayers of Diary Incarnate – a lovely collection of poetry, stories, and musings.

Erotic Quest – a new blog about so many erotic things.

Whoredinary – a blog from “your friendly neighborhood prostitute.”

He Makes Me Feel Good – a sexy journal of a sub’s life.

Online Dating Journal – The name says it all, no?

The MILF Diary – One MILF’s story of being the MILF with Mr. Milfy’s band.

Turning Off The Red Light – Story of a woman who is trying to retire from her night job.

SarahAlice of The Adventures of an English Student – the amusing, intellectual story of a British gal in Uni.

Always Each Other – She has stopped posting, but still a great read a steamy married life in the sack.

Girly Jona – a story of a girl from Iceland that is anything but frigid.

TransformingZ – A story of a European woman running into the arms of an American.  Twist, she’s married.

Modesty Ablaze – Erotic writings and photos of a highly sexed woman!

Sexcapades: Real and Imagined – A woman who yearns for requests.

A Time of Yearning – After creating the perfect home, family, and life, this woman finds she needs more and she gets it, regrets it, writes about it.

Tempting Sweets – A woman whose words are the sweets with which she tempts the silent reader.

Cute Little Puppy – The posts are few and far between, but worth the wait.  A woman whose writing is exquisite minimalism: achieving the greatest range in the fewest words.

The Sexpeditions of Lady J – One woman’s journey to discover her elusive O.

The Nymph Chronicles – One self-proclaimed “lover of men” tells her story.

Womensdiary – So much more than a diary, but lots of sex involved.

sexisnotbad – of course not!

If you don’t know what a “hot wife” is, check this out and this!  

* – P.S. – If you think that we are following your blog and you didn’t show up here, let us know.  If you want us to follow your blog, leave us a comment with a link to your blog below, or e-mail us at: downloladown@gmail.com

Thanks to all our friends in the kink-blogosphere!

Another Sunny Megatron Masturbation Moment

So, thanks to Between My Sheets’ nomination page (which, btw, if you haven’t voted yet, click here), we’ve found some great blogs.  Sunny Megatron is one of them.  Just read this and thought it worthy of a repost!

In that spirit. . .

 

(We Were) Recently Published in e[lust]!


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~ Top 3 ~

Never Pinch a Sadist: 50 Shades of PlaidIf you don’t know kink, don’t feel pressured into it. If you wonder what it is about, join Fetlife and find local event to teach you about it.

Collars & closure & owning myselfthere is triumph in realizing that your paths are diverging, repacking your shit, and moving on with dignity and respect.

The QuarryWe agreed to meet up on the weekend and go out to the quarry. It was an old, flooded quarry. I didn’t know it, but the queers had taken it over.

~ Featured Post (Picked by Lilly) ~

The Pussy Pride Project

~ e[lust] Editress ~

“I can’t orgasm without a vibrator” So What?Embrace it. Bring it in to your partnered sex life. Be happy that you can achieve orgasm whatever way that works for you.

All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

Erotic Writing

A Guest for Dinner
A Beautiful Need
A Purring Machine
A Hard Man is Good to Find
Chlorine Kisses
In a different world
I Crave You!
Lolita Twenty-Twelve, Part Four
Mojo Back
My 69th Orgasm
Owned Part 4
Sensual room service
Summertime
Tease Me
Travelling
The Space Between
The Text
The Wicked Wench of Wupert Stweet
The Desk of Power
Use Me
What I’m thinking about when I’m…
When Frederick Met Camille

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Living with an Alpha Sub
Make Her Cum
Restless
Swinging and safe sex
Talking with the Lights Off
The Promiscuous Bisexual
Why Do I Have More Respect For Men Than MRAs?
What not to do for anal sex
Wants, Needs & Poly
Wifi Sex?

Kink & Fetish

A Boot Scene
Consent as Torture
Mores and Behavior
Pursuit of Squirting
Playing With Lightning
Submissive men: A celebration of beauty
strapping on…my first time
Submission for a Femdom Facesitting Film
Steeped
rethinking warmup

Do it! You know you want to.

That’s right, nominate mysexlifewithlola.com as one of the Top Sex Blogs of 2012.  Simply go here: Between My Sheets – 

http://www.betweenmysheets.com/the-time-has-come-nominations-are-open-for-the-2012-top-sex-bloggers-list

and nominate us in the comments section.  If you do so, we’ll send you the unpublished blog entry and photo that makes this girl gasp!

 

Just send us an e-mail telling us that you nominated us and we’ll send you a special, unpublished, uncensored blog entry (too hot, dirty, and graphic for the blog) along with a sexy pic that will melt your computer screen and make you go “Oh my!”

This is a shameless plug for our blog, but would you expect shame and no plug from us?  We didn’t think so.

Two More on the Shelf

Much thanks to Alice of StoryofAlice  (subtitle: Alice’s Secret Sex Diary) and SarahAlice of The Adventures of An English Student (not to be confused with one another) for awarding our humble blog the “Meta Awesomest Blog” Award and the “Beautiful Blogger Award” respectively.

Here are the rules for the “Beautiful Blogger Award”:

The Rules

1. Include the award logo somewhere in your blog.

2. Answer 10 questions you have about yourself.  (I changed that a little.)

3. Nominate 10 to 12 blogs you enjoy. Or you pick the number.
4. Pay the love forward: Provide your nominee’s link in your post and comment on their blog to let them know they’ve been included and invited to participate.
5. Pay the love back with gratitude and a link to the blogger(s) who nominated you.
Alice simplified the rules for her award, saying “Answer some questions about yourself and spread the love.”
Here’s how I plan to go about following (or not) the rules for both these awards.  For the longest time now I have been jealous of blogs I read that have a “blog roll” or “blogs I follow” sidebar.  I want one.  Whomever comments on this page and tells me how to create one in WordPress first wins the “Awesomest Blogger Award” along with it ridiculous picture and poor grammar.  Then everyone who shows up in our new “blog roll” bar wins the “Beautiful Blogger Award” – even if you have won it before!
Lastly, can anyone tell us where SarahAlice has gone?  She seems to be missing.  She was blogging about a trip to D.C., but radio silence after that.  Concerned.
OK, here are our ten answers, you can guess the questions:
1.  In the shower.
2.  Four or five.
3.  Cinema Paradiso.
4.  Morning/Evening.
5.  All the time!
6.  Her ass.
7.  His cock.
8.  On the subway.
9.  Never.
10.  Love.
Thanks everyone,
Lo & HH
The Questions: 

Sexy Blogger Award

Thanks to Theo Black for his passing along to Lo & me the “Sexy Blogger Award.”

We are flattered – and flattery will get you everywhere with us!

According to the rules of this award, we have to:

1. Post 5 sexy suggestions.
2. Post a link to your sexiest blog post.
3. Nominate 5 other sexy bloggers.
4. Let your nominees know they’re sexy.

So, here goes.  I’m not sure what is meant by “suggestions,” but a few cum to mind:

1. Everyone who follows/likes/reads our blog should post one comment on the blog about what you do while reading it.  (Gillian, of course, has told us what she does – masturbating at work! – and that is SO flattering to hear.)

2.  Everyone who follows/likes/reads our blog should “Edge” for a week – No climaxing, but only going to the edge, then report back.

3.  All the bloggers out there should post a photo of themselves – not revealing identity, but showing yourselves off, much like Sophia often does.

4.  The ladies out there should try one day with Ben Wa balls and then report back.

5.  All the guys out there should write to Lo and tell her how they would/could meet her insatiable appetite: downloladown@gmail.com

I’ve said it before, but I think this is our sexiest blog post.

So, the 5 other bloggers I’d like to nominate are:

1. Fatal – So similar to Lo in so many ways.

2. Hyacinth – Always interesting topics, and totally insatiable.

3.  CC – The poetry!  The poetry!  Oh, what lovely, inspired, and sexy poetry!

4. LS&M – The honesty of this is wonderful.

5. Hotwife – A term we recently learned from a friend.  So odd to find out you are something and you didn’t even know it.

 

Enjoy kinksters!

HH & Lo