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Still Crazy After All These Years!

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You might think that the title of this post is referring to HH and me, your beautiful blog bunny, Lola. Well, it’s not. It’s referring to an inspiring older couple, Mr. and Mrs. E, who have a Just For Fans site that is just amazing!

Mr. E is a talented artist, and his talent shows in his photography. Mrs. E is his muse and a beautiful model. Together they are a couple that other kinky couples can admire and hope to inspire.

The Mrs. is a fan of Match, Cinder & Spark!

Here’s my interview with them:

Q: I went through your whole Just For Fans. It looks like you started back in late 2019, but you migrated there from Tumblr. When did you two start with the erotic photography?

A: Mr E: I wanted to show her, how erotic and sexy she was/is… so we played around just for us. Watching the pictures on big TV-screen and having fun.

Mrs E: Very often the shoots lead to passionate fucking sessions.

Mr E.: Around 2015 I discovered tumblr. – that was great, you could post uncensored, had great style, nice Archive. Perfect – We had 85K Followers, when the tumblr purge started. They deleted our blog – with 12K pictures…

Mrs E: He was devastated… we were devastated… than MeWe came along, they also deleted some blogs…

Mr E: Then I was looking for a safe haven… where we could keep the nerds and idiots out. The money (it’s only 1/10 of what we (mostly me !) spend on lingerie…) – One platform we like, but lately problems with the followers counter, is X formerly Twitter…

Mrs E: I love to see the posts on the big TV-screen, also after every shooting…

 

 

 

Q: I was going to say, it looks like you spend a lot on lingerie! Was it a fetish for both of you, or did you both grow into it? Does Mr E ever like to wear the lingerie? (BTW, that’s a BIG turn-on for me – men in panties and nylons, etc.)

A: Mrs E: I always loved lingerie, but Mr E really got me into it…

Mr E: I was always a big fan of stockings and garters and nylons, and for the shoots I was looking for nice stuff… from every business trip she got some pieces…

 

 

Q: I see that Gunter Blum and Roy Stuart are featured in some of your photos. Are they big influences on either of you? Who else is an influence in the photos you take?

A: Mr E – Artistic and aesthetically a lot of artists had an influence on me… photographer: beside the ones you mentioned, are H. Newton, Araki, Knoll and others…

Mrs E: I loved it when he brought the newest LEG SHOW issue home…. great inspiration…

 

 

Q: For Mrs E: I see in some of the photos images of you apparently getting off to other photos of sexy, scantily clad or naked women. Are you into women? More generally, what are your kinks and do you have sex with anyone besides or in addition to Mr.?

I think she’s into Lola Down

A: Mrs E: I have a lot of close female friends, love to look at sexy women, but I’m not into women. We had some experiences with other couples (not really satisfying) and few MMF – one was fine, but from far away… He loves to fantasize about us with another man…

Q: Well, I will admit, I wish it was my photos all over the wall in this beautiful picture! (wallpaper)

A: Mr E: that’s a funny crazy story: coming home from a business, she surprised me with a Paperwall (between a door) covered with this porn collage. It was a Lucky Hole!!!!

Q: Do either of you care to share how it came about and what inspired it? (Squid photo)

A: Mrs E: Mr E loves to cook! Holidays on a Island with a great population of these delicious animals made us fantasize… btw. it was delicate cooked… lol –

Q: Tell me, what are your hopes, dreams, plans for the future with regard to the erotic photography? Do you think you’ll make a book of it?

A: Mr E: We don’t plan to much, as long as we love what we do, we carry on… and yes a book is one of our opportunities… or NFT… but all is vague…

Q: I see in one of the photos, she’s reading “Talk Dirty to Me.” What sort of erotica do you two (or each of you) enjoy? What sort of porn? Do you like to masturbate together or alone or both?

Favorite Erotica? Match, Cinder & Spark

A: Mrs E – I read everything from classic erotic literature to pornographic texts. But I like it best when he reads to me, his dark erotic voice turns me on… I like looking at other women, old Leg Show magazines or artistic pornography. That’s why our favorite go-to erotica has been your Match, Cinder & Spark books! Every now and then we watch porn together, sometimes just as a silent background wallpaper.

Mr E: I am well-educated in pornography. LOL – I’ve always been interested in the history of pornography. As a media person, I’m a porn gourmet, even if I enjoy home cooking now and then. I read a lot, including theoretical writings on pornography, so it was obvious to try to create aesthetic pornography yourself.

Lola: Thank you both for this interview – it was such a turn-on to talk with you and to learn from you!!! We both wish you two the best with your erotic adventures!

Go check out Mr. and Mrs. E at stillcrazyafteralltheseyears on Just For Fans!

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Reign of Terror

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[Continued from Femme-Enfant.]

Lola’s Repressed Memories of growing up fast with Robie

When Lo awoke from her fainting spell, she wasn’t bound and there were no clothespins on her nipples or labia.  She was on the floor, but no one else was in Robie’s bedroom.  Lo stood up slowly so as not to pass out again.  She walked, naked, over to her bureau and pulled out something to wear.  She slipped into a little dress, just in case her parents were home.  She walked downstairs and found Robie and her boyfriend eating some cereal in the kitchen at the counter.  She was still wearing her sister’s heart patterned panties over her head.

“Hey Lo,” said Robie cheerfully, “you woke up?”

“Yeah,” said Lo, confused.

“How was your nap?”

“Uh, good, I guess.”

Lo was trying to figure out if she had fallen asleep and it was all a dream or if her sister was just gaslighting her (even though, at the time Lo did not have this word in her vocabulary).  Lo could feel her nipples were still sore, her pussy was aching, her ass felt as if she still had a cock up it, and the back of her throat ached something terrible.  She could still taste the salty semen in her mouth and her face had some on her upper lip and chin.  It couldn’t have been a dream!

“Hungry?” asked Robie.

“Uh, nah.”

Lo walked past the two of them and went to the living room.  She turned on the TV and plopped herself down on the carpeted floor, lying on her stomach with a pillow under her head.  Absentmindedly, she pulled the panties down over her face to smell her sister’s scent.  Her eyes were on either side of the thin thong crotch.  She felt like a superhero wearing a mask.  Her pigtails were free on each side of the panties.  She looked up and watched her favorite animated movie – Beauty and the Beast.  She had watched this movie probably over a hundred times.  She had no idea what about it she liked so much, but it pleased her ever since she could remember.

Robie and her boyfriend eventually followed Lo into the living room and sat on the couch behind her.

“This again?!” said Robie.

Lo didn’t answer.  She was in her own world.  Her legs were spread and bent at the knees with her bare feet dangling in the air.

“You probably have every word memorized!”

No answer from Lo.

Robie’s boyfriend nodded his head, gesturing for Robie to look at what he saw.  From behind, looking at Lo with her feet up in the air and her legs slightly spread, he could see under her short dress Lo’s bare slit.

Robie caught a glimpse of it too.  She reached over and grabbed the long umbrella that was by the front door.  She leaned forward and put the tip of the umbrella up, under Lo’s dress and pushed the dress up over Lo’s ass so that the two of them could have a better view.

Robie giggled.

This reminded Robie of the first time she used Lo as a prop for her and her boyfriend’s prurient enjoyment.

It was the exact same scenario about a year earlier.  Lo was lying on her tum on the living room floor in a little dress, no panties.  She propped up her head with her hands, her arms bent at the elbows under her chin.  She had her feet up in the air, dangling, legs spread just enough for a sneak peek as she was engrossed in watching a cartoon – probably Beauty and the Beast.  Robie and her boyfriend (a different boyfriend then) were sitting on the couch behind Lo.  The parents were out, as usual.  Robie was supposed to be babysitting Lo, making sure she didn’t get in trouble.  Little did the parents know, Robie was the trouble.

The boyfriend caught a glimpse of Lo’s crotch.  Robie felt something twitch under his shorts, where she had rested her left hand.  She saw him looking at her young, innocent, little sister’s snatch.  Rather than be outraged, angry, disgusted, she was amused.  Rather than throw the boyfriend out, telling him that he shouldn’t be looking up little girls’ skirts, especially her younger sister’s, Robie pressed on her boyfriend’s tumescent cock, causing it to grow.  It was rock solid under his shorts as Robie stroked it.  His eyes were glued to the hairless, tight twat between Lo’s legs.  Lo was oblivious to this, but for unknown reasons, she reached behind her and scratched an itch on her butt, pushing the hem of the dress even further up, revealing even more.

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Robie pulled down the elastic waistband of her boyfriend’s shorts and let the constricted cock spring out, popping up, nearly hitting her in the face.  She bent over and took it in her mouth as he continued watching Lola.  Robie’s long dark hair draped down over his lap.  It didn’t take long before he was exploding in Robie’s oral cavity and making grunting noises as he did.  Lola was distracted from her show, turned around, and saw her sister with a mouthful of cum and her boyfriend’s cock lying out.

Lo just looked on, confused.

“Robie, what are you doing?” she asked innocently.

Robie swallowed hard and said, “I just had a little snack.”

“Snack?”

“Yeah.  Men have snacks in there,” she said, pointing to his penis, “and sometimes they give them to us.”  She snickered.

“A snack, in there?!  What kind of snack?” asked Lo, dubious.

“A yummy one!”

“Can I have some?”

“Not now.”

“Why not?”

“There’s only enough for one.  Maybe next time.”

Lo wouldn’t let her older sister forget this and demanded her snack the next time the boyfriend came over.  Lo was playing in her room – the room she shared with her older sister – when she heard the doorbell.  Lo ran to the door and looked out the little rectangular windows that lined the door on either side.  She saw Robie’s boyfriend.  She let him in with a smile.

“Got a snack for me?”

“What?” he asked, confused.

“Robie said that you have a snack.”

“Is Robie home?”

“Yeah.  She’s in the living room listening to music.”

The boyfriend walked past Lo.  Lo was insulted and followed to the living room.  She told her sister that she wanted the ‘boy snack’ that was owed to her.

Robie tried to talk her out of it, but Lo was insistent.  The boyfriend said, “Let her have a taste.”  Robie considered the situation.  She was horny and she knew that Lo wouldn’t give her and her boyfriend any privacy.  When Lo wanted something, she could be a relentless annoyance.  Robie told her sister, “Sit down and don’t say a word.”

Lo smiled because she knew she was finally going to get what she wanted – the ‘boy snack.’  Lo sat down cross-legged on the carpet.  Robie said, “No, not like that.  Sit on your knees, right here.”

Lo listened to her older sister and sat in the “kajira position,” as Robie called it.  Lola didn’t know then that this “foreign” word referred to the Gor series of novels by John Norman, of which Robie was an avid reader at the time.

Lo sat, looking up at the tall “man” who stood in front of her.  In reality, he was only about fifteen or sixteen, but that seemed to be a world of difference in age, experience, knowledge, and maturity to Lo.  He was no kid to her.  He had crossed that mysterious and invisible divide between children, like herself, and adults – whatever that meant.

Her older sister also got on her knees in a similar position as Lo, right in front of her boyfriend.  Lo was eager to see everything and not have her sister play another trick on her and so she complained.

“I told you not to say a word, didn’t I?” Robie scolded her.

Lo stopped complaining.

To appease her whining, younger sister, Robie turned her boyfriend so that he was standing profile in front of Lo and Robie was on her knees directly in front of him with her face opposite his crotch.

Robie pulled down the droopy basketball shorts he was wearing and revealed his white briefs with a bulge in the front.  She then pulled down the briefs and the bulge unfurled like a drawbridge being suddenly let down and it hit Robie on the head with its full, heavy meat.

Lo laughed a little, but stifled her laugh because she didn’t want to get in trouble again.

Robie grabbed the protruding appendage with her right hand and looked at Lo.

“You see,” she said, “this is the lever that makes the snack.  All you have to do is pull the lever and the snack will shoot out.”

“Like ice cream?” asked Lo.

“Exactly.  So, open your mouth if you want to get a taste.”

Lo opened her mouth.

“Wider,” said her sister.

Lo opened as wide as she could, sticking out her tongue.

Robie commenced pulling the lever and within seconds the cream started flowing.  He didn’t take long to produce the desired result because he was young, inexperienced, full of raging hormones, and, on top of all that, he liked looking at Lo.  Suddenly he was gushing like a geyser and Robie turned his spout toward Lo so that she got a little, as if drinking from an uncontrollable water hose.  A lot of it missed the mark and went in her hair, on her face, and even clear over her head.  But what Lo did capture in her mouth, she didn’t think was so yummy and insisted that her sister and her boyfriend were playing a prank on her.

Robie played a lot of pranks on Lo.  In fact, when Lo was in the fifth grade and learned about the French Revolution and the Reign of Terror, she began calling her sister “Robespierre” or “Robie” for short.

Robie soon learned that her boyfriends liked to watch Lola and she gave them every opportunity to enjoy her naïve, innocent, curious, and pliant younger sibling.  Not one of them objected when Robie made Lo strip while Robie and her fuck-friend of the day fooled around or when Robie insisted that Lo wear no panties around the house under her short dress.  Or when Robie put her panties over Lo’s head.  Lo particularly liked this last little kink because for Lo it was love at first sniff.

But these sorts of pranks eventually got Robie in real trouble when the elaborate tricks she played on her little, trusting sister, drew the attention of the authorities.

 

Femme-Enfant

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[Continued from Sister Sodomy.]

“The little slut wanted me to teach her how to deepthroat,” Robie said to the guy behind her, as he pounded her pussy on the bed.

“Really?” he said, absentmindedly, as he rhythmically rode her ass and was intently staring at Lola who sat naked, tied up on the floor in front of the two of them.  They were on the bed looking down at Lo or at themselves in the full-length mirror in front of them.  Robie liked seeing her newly developed breasts bouncing back and forth with each slam by her boyfriend’s hips into her buttocks as he rammed that long rod of his home.  Lo watched the two of them from her spot on the floor – staring unblinkingly from behind her older sister’s panties that were still pulled down over her head like some sort of twisted superhero mask.  She inhaled deeply the scent of her sister and mutely sat in sexual frustration because her hands were tied behind her back, her nipples of her undeveloped breasts pulsing with pain from the clothespins her sister had attached to them, and her labia smarting just as badly with the clothespins that she had also attached down there.

“Yes,” said Robie.

“And did you?”

“I did.”

“Well, you’re the best.  She learned from the best.”

“Then she wanted me to teach her how to take it in her ass.”

“Wow!  She takes after her older sister.”

Those were words of praise to Lo who, though in tremendous pain, was also blushing with pride.

“So I fucked her ass.”

“Could she take it?”

“She did – like a champ!”

“Can you take it?”

“Now?”

“Now.”

“Yes, please, Sir.”

He pulled out of Robie’s dripping cunt.

“Wait a minute,” said Robie.  She got up off the bed and went to her little sister.  She lifted her up in the air like she was a toy and turned her around so that now Lo was also facing the full-length mirror.

Lola’s Repressed Memories of growing up fast with Robie

Robie got back on the bed and assumed the position.

“Why’d you do that?” her boyfriend asked.

“She was creeping me out with those big brown eyes staring at us.”

He shrugged his shoulders and went in Robie’s back door.

“See Lo,” Robie said to the image in the mirror, “feels so good.”

Lola could only look on with frustrated desire and pulsating pain from her nipples and labia.  Her eyes were wide open, on either side of the thong, watching as her older sister was sodomized by her boyfriend.  Lo looked briefly down at her bound body and then back to her big sister.  Lo didn’t want a boyfriend.  She wanted Robie.

“To make him really feel good,” said Robie, “you clench your asshole, tightening your sphincter around his girth.”

Apparently this technique worked because the guy made a moaning sound.

He slapped Robie’s ass hard.  She then moaned.  He slapped it again on the other side, drawing out another moan.  Then he leaned forward and put her in a headlock.  She couldn’t breathe for a few seconds.  He released her and she screamed – a yelp of ecstatic pleasure.

Before Lo knew what was happening, he had pulled out and ran up to Lo, lifted the panties off her face and impatiently commanded, “Open your mouth!  Now!”

Lo did as told and he thrust his cock down her throat and ejaculated so much spunk that it felt like bucket loads to Lo.  Unlike Robie, he didn’t cajole Lo, romance her, instruct her, or even give her any warning about what was to happen.  Despite the fact that she thought she might puke, she swallowed and coughed and a lot of the sperm shot up and out of her nostrils as still more drizzled from the corner of her mouth and down to her collarbone.  It wasn’t the first sperm she ever tasted.  She gasped for air and then grew lightheaded and passed out.

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Interview With Sex Surrogate Joslyn Nerdhal

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Interview With Sex Surrogate Joslyn Nerdahl

Joslyn Nerdhal

 

LOLA – Hi Joslyn, it’s an honor to interview you for our blog! To be honest, I had never heard of a sex surrogate or even programs to assist people living with disabilities to have sex until one of the fans of the blog wrote to me. He told us about his condition – he had been injured in an accident that left him paralyzed from the chest down. His accident was over two decades ago and he had to suffer terribly, especially when female aid workers came over to assist him with all sorts of things – showering, getting dressed, etc. – and they’d see him naked, but never the other way around. He found many of them quite attractive. And then one day, a home health aid who had been with him for many years made advances that were probably grossly inappropriate, but were also most welcome by him. After that, he did more research on it and discovered the interview you did with Vice and your work with Spencer Williams. He sent the interview to me. I was blown away! The fact that I hadn’t been aware of this issue – and I consider myself pretty well-versed in all things sex – shows how invisible this is for to the general public. The fact that his home health aid had to resort to something she could get fired for but which he desperately wanted and needed also shows how our system is broken and in need of repair. Will you tell us a bit of how you got into this field and what you do?

Joslyn Nerdhal

J.N. – Thank you Lola, I appreciate the opportunity to discuss this very important topic with you. I get asked about how I got into this field of sexuality a lot, even as a Certified Sex Coach and Clinical Sexologist in my private coaching practice people ask me all the time “How did you get into this?!” LOL!  

I started out as a typical sex worker years ago, doing erotic massage and adult entertainment to pay the bills. Eventually I got engaged to be married and tried to transition out of the sex work industry for the sake of my relationship; it was during this time I started my private sex coaching practice, and it was also when I found Sensual Solutions – the agency for folks with physical disabilities – and I met with Trish St. John (owner/founder) to see if working together would be a good fit. We had a meeting that was supposed to be 30 mins…3 hours later we were still talking! Needless to say, we hit it off. But my fiance at the time was not comfortable with me taking the job. Once that relationship deteriorated, Trish was the first call I made and we’ve been working together ever since. Within the same year, I registered for school and eventually completed my sexology degree. I now help folks individually and in couples with their sex lives through private coaching sessions. I also teach sex ed classes to students and speak at conferences and workshops sometimes on sexual diversity, sex and disability and sex work. And sometimes I do still work as a surrogate partner for people with physical disabilities.

Joslyn Nerdhal

LOLA – After I heard from this fan, I actually started getting a lot of fan mail from other people with various kinds of disabilities. One of the most interesting (and saddest) was of a man who was also in an accident and the injury he sustained was directly to his penis. It was shorted and misshapen and he was unable to find a sexual partner who would be ok with this. He also suffered terrible anxiety about it that resulted in erectile disfunction. He told me that he was only able to get erect through virtual conversations and cybersex. Have you encountered anything like this and would this be in your scope of services?

J.N. – Absolutely, erectile challenges are extremely common, even with folks who haven’t been injured in an accident. The mental anxiety people experience – both men and women – when they’ve got negative self-talk, body image concerns, body dysmorphia and/or a lack of confidence can result in paralyzing fear that does manifest in physical consequences…like the inability to maintain an erection, or to self-lubricate or to even relax enough to get aroused, let alone reach climax. The study of sexology is not just the study of human sexual behaviour but also how we think and feel about it; it is commonly stated that our most important sex organ is the brain.

Valentina Bianco

Valentina Bianco

LOLA – One of my fans turned me on to pornoeducativo.com and the video with Valentina Bianco. https://befuck.net/xid/21240957/ I’m not sure if you’ve seen it, but is that educational or porn? I mean, is that similar to what you and other sex surrogates do or a wild exaggeration?

Vanlentia Bianco

J.N. – I have never seen a video like this before, I was waiting for it to turn into a porn, considering the site it is on, but all they did was talk and snuggle for 23 mins lol…so yeah, that I’d say that is pretty realistic because a lot of discussion is needed for these interactions. I wouldn’t necessarily call it educational either though, since we can’t hear anything they’re saying. It would’ve been nice to hear some of the negotiations or topics they were discussing. 

Valentina Bianco

Valentina Bianco

LOLA – Which brings me to the subject of fetishes. Ever since my friend directed my attention to the sexual needs of people with disabilities, I’ve become increasingly more aware of a sub-category of kink which is sex involving people with all sorts of disabilities. Now, you’re very sex-positive, but do you think this is dangerous or harmful in any way or do you think it is helpful to get people to realize that we all like, even love, sex?

J.N. – I think it can be dangerous to fetishize anyone, not just people with disabilities, but trans folks, plus sized people, different ethnicities, et cetera… because if that is all you’re appreciating about a person you’re reducing them to a 2-dimensional being and it is very dehumanizing. There is definitely a fine line between having a healthy kink-preference and fetishizing folks.

And how you can tell the difference is whether or not that person’s interest in you extends beyond the bedroom into other facets of your life as well…not just sexually; caring about your hopes and dreams and struggles and hobbies and interests, not just about orgasms.

LOLA – From what I’ve learned in other interviews and news stories about you, it seems that some of your clients are long-term. If you can, will you tell us what it’s like to have a long-term client who might engage in what Freud called “transference” – the projecting onto you feelings that the client has? I imagine a long-term client is very different from a one-off.

J.N. – Yes, transference can definitely take place and that is why typically in the surrogate partner scenario (especially in the U.S.) there is also a licensed therapist involved supporting the client to work through those complicated emotions; ideally there is a set number of sessions you agree to in order to work through a self-identified goal or concern, knowing there is an end date. There have been instances where my working relationship had to end with a client because the connection with me became problematic for them rather than helped them, but it is rare. Ultimately, if I’m doing my job correctly of course, there will be some level of attachment. It is to be expected when you’re handling intimacy.

LOLA – I don’t know anything of your personal life (and you don’t have to reveal anything here), but I wonder what it’s like to be in a romantic relationship at home and then be like, “I’ll see you later, hun, I’m off to work,” when work is literally helping people to cum. Does it make for any complications or unusual strains on the relationship?

J.N. – I have encountered both ends of the spectrum with my personal romantic partnerships; I’ve had partners like my ex-fiance who were not comfortable at all with me touching other people, even in a professional capacity, (despite learning later he wasn’t faithful himself!) and so it caused problems in the relationship…and I’ve also dated very mature and self-realized partners who weren’t threatened by my professional life at all because they understand how it helps people rather than hurts people and that it is still work for me and it is not the same as what I do in my personal life. I have strong boundaries and safer sex standards that keep what I do at work very separate from what I do at home with my personal partners. I have been told more than once that my experience itself is intimidating, and that’s ok because if you’re intimidated by me, you probably can’t satisfy me in bed anyway!

I also have zero tolerance for whoreaphobia now; if you don’t or can’t respect sex workers then I have no use for you anyhow.

LOLA – Can you give a description of what sorts of techniques you would use during a surrogate session? I mean, does it only involve hands or could it also involve feet, full nudity, oral, and/or more?

J.N. – Every session is different, because every client is different and dealing with a varied level of experience, injury and or sensation. I often do body mapping with clients which is a process of going through a checklist of different types of touch on different areas of the body (*hint* NOT just genitals can be erogenous zones!) and they can range from sensual to educational to erotic…sometimes sessions are more educational in nature because it’s the first time seeing a live naked body, or learning about anatomy or safer sex practices or how to use different toys. Sometimes companionship and compassionate touching is more necessary than orgasms because cuddling isn’t available to them. Sometimes I help 2 partners learn how to be intimate with each other and I’m more of a guide and support for them. No two sessions are alike.

LOLA – Do you ever just read to your clients? If so, would you be interested in a free copy of Match, Cinder & Spark to read to them?

Sure that would be great! I’d love a free copy.

To find out more about Josyln Nerdhal and what she does, check out:

Josyln Nerdhal’s website is mojomediator.com and people can find her on IG and Twitter at MojoMediator.

Also check out her Sensual Solutions website:

http://www.sensualsolutions.ca/

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