“Normalize Cuckolding” Content Creator Roxy Interviewed by Lola Down

Questions for Roxy – the hotwife of Ben and Roxy who run the website “Normalize Cuckolding”:

Roxy Dover and Ben

Roxy, Ben, and Bull

L: How did each of you get into the lifestyle?

R:  We actually met while swinging. Ben had been in the lifestyle for like 10 years before we met. He started swinging right out of high school and has never had a monogamous relationship.  Me and my ex husband have always had threesomes and other group activities since high school.  After we kinda cheated on each other a bunch we decided to open things up a little more formally.  After a few weeks of hooking up with Ben we realized there was something going on between us and that we were in very bad marriages.  One thing led to another and we ended up getting divorced and we married each other. I know one of the rules of swinging is to not fall in love, so we call this our swinger fail.

Roxy Dover

L: When did you decide to launch “Normalize Cuckolding” and why?

R: A few years back we were joking around about me wanting to bring a boyfriend with us to various places and events and that we should “normalize cuckolding” so I could openly do that without any of the negative connotations that come with that. It was kinda a joke between Ben and me and then he used it in some of our promotional work.  People really took to it and it kinda took off.  After a while we decided to lean into it and do seminars, podcasts, and set up a whole site dedicated to it.

Roxy’s Puffy Pussy

In reality, “Normalize Cuckolding” is really about not kink shaming.  While we want to reduce the stigma of being a cuckold, because none of the stereotypes are close to being true in most situations, we also want people to be able to explore whatever they enjoy without the fear of what other people think or how they are going to react.  We have one trip through life; everyone should be able to enjoy it how they want.  As long as what you are doing isn’t hurting anyone, you should feel free to do what makes you happy.

Roxy’s Mons Pubis

Roxy Can’t Get Enough!

L: What has been the response to “Normalize Cuckolding”?

R: People love it.  There really hasn’t been any negative response and in fact it seems to have helped people.  We often get emails or DMs from people we have helped get into the lifestyle through our content. What was really cool was that at Exxxotica 2024 NJ, 2 young guys came over to our booth and we were talking and one of them started to say how cuckolds are just weak, little men who can’t satisfy their wives.  I then asked 6’7″ 400lbs Ben to come over to join the conversation.  Not only did that shut him down, but his friend actually schooled him on all of the positives of cuckolding and the reality of what most cucks are like. So, for the most part, it seems to help others understand the kink and is helping others understand it a bit better.

Roxy’s Brand

Roxy puts out the call

That Glaze!

L: Best cuck experience you’ve had so far?

R: We got an AirBnB and a hotel room. I took Ben to the hotel room and made him get naked and locked his PA piercing to a kettlebell so he couldn’t move or do anything.  I then went to the AirBnB and spent the night with a very well-hung bull.  It was the best sex of my life.  After fucking all night, I went and got Ben from the hotel room but sat on his face and made him clean my very full, very sore pussy first.  Then I brought him back to the AirBnB so he could make sure he thanked my bull before he left.  This was one of the hottest things we have done.

L: When did you bring Kallie Freya into the mix and what’s the story behind “Crimson Chaos”?

R: We were shooting at Exxxotica and Moses brought her to our room to shoot a threesome scene.  The chemistry between us was electric. It was clear there was a connection between us.  After that we became very close friends and started to work together.  Both of us being redheads, we decided on the name Crimson Chaos.  Currently our schedules and lives are kinda pulling us apart, but Kallie is one of the most authentic, friendly, caring people you could ever meet.

Kallie Freya and Roxy Dover

Kallie and Roxy on Vacation

Kallie and Roxy

Kallie and Roxy – Killer Curves

Kallie and Roxy share an intimate moment

Kallie and Roxy normalize cuckolding together

L: Favorite porn stars (amateur or professional)?

R: Every single person I have worked with has been amazing.  Either we are doing a great job vetting talent or most porn stars are awesome people, but the vast majority of the time I walk away from a shoot wanting to work with the person again.  Also, being in the industry you grow a deep respect for what other talent is going through.  This is a nonstop grind where you have to keep moving.  Being a porn star is not easy. When collaborating with others, they become your partner in this so it’s really hard to select just a few who are my favorites.  Now I do have a small list of people I will not work with, but I’m going to keep that to myself.

Kallie has some moves of her own.

L: Favorite films, books, or TV shows?

R: There is a pretty sweet collection of books called Match, Cinder & Spark; they are pretty good.  We don’t watch many movies, but for TV we are usually binge watching something from years ago.  We are currently watching “Everybody Loves Raymond,” just finished “Home Improvement.”  I always have “New Girl” on during the day when I’m home.  I like simple and funny things to watch; nothing that’s going to make me depressed or over tax my brain to think about…..comfort shows

L: How does your hotwife/cuck relationship compare with what you’ve read in the Match, Cinder & Spark books?

R: Every hotwife/cuck relationship is different. It seems in the book there is a loving primary relationship with a dominant partner who loves how slutty the other one is. Our relationship is kind of like that.  Real cuckold relationships are rooted in love. I hate when guys ask me to cuck them; it’s simply not possible. I don’t love them.  There is no way you can truly understand what it feels like to be a cuck or a hotwife if it’s not done in a loving relationship. I also like when Ben is dominant when we are together. I’m naturally submissive and some of the stuff I want to explore, like say knife play, can only be done with someone I trust.  The issue we run into is that Ben also prefers to be submissive and craves that loss of control. So, in our relationship when we are alone, Ben is more of a switch.

Kallie and Ben

L: What would your dream date with me entail?

R:  I’m Bi so I always enjoy a sexy lady like yourself.  I’m also a size queen, so I love big dick as well.  So, for me a dream date would be: we get a nice hotel room, enjoy each other for a bit, order a pizza, cause I love to see a curvy woman like you eat naked and be fucked, and then invite over a few well-hung studs to pound us the rest of the night. Maybe we kick them out when they are done and we can cuddle while eating some cake and watching TV as we fall asleep together.

L: What can we expect from you in the near future?

R: Just plugging away at the website and trying to further the normalize the cuckolding movement.  Also, we have gotten into VR porn over the last few years and I think I’m going to make a bigger push with that this upcoming year.

L: Thanks so much! This has been fun!

Come and Get It!

 

Newest Members of The Match Book Club – Peach State Couple

In our quest to spotlight hot, sexy, and real people who have written to us to tell us how much they enjoy the stories in the various volumes of Match, Cinder & Spark, this week we bring you a loving couple who have had more than their share of adversity and who have transformed their sorrows into sheer sexiness! Please welcome Peach State Couple into The Match Book Club! Here they are in their own words and photos.

Peach State Couple getting it on

We have been married 25 years and together 30.  We have always had an amazing relationship but the room was not on fire in the bedroom. Like many couples we didn’t know how to have the right conversation about what we really needed.

Peach State Couple

 

Then it happened, Mr. was diagnosed with kidney failure and began dialysis treatments.  We continued on but realized that we needed to begin treasuring every day like it was our last because it truly could be.   We sat down and started to admit what we needed and what we were not getting and it was like a gift from heaven. Suddenly our bedroom was on fire with passion and sensuality.

Mrs. Peach’s sex ass.

Mr. received a transplant and life was good, but it was short lived.  About 5 years ago Mrs. was diagnosed with breast cancer. We were terrified of what life was going to bring us.  Chemotherapy, radiation, and a double mastectomy later and we made it through with just a few physical changes.

Mrs. Peach’s friend Lexi

Mrs. Peach post surgery

Mrs. Peach

We have continued to devour one another whenever we have the chance and even though she lost her nipples Mrs. is still a sexy sensual being to the utmost degree.  One day while enjoying one another’s bodies we made the joke of how hot it would be to post some of our sexy pics online, and had some of the hottest sex we had had in a while.  Our photo shoots got sexier and sexier as we fantasized about people looking at and getting off to our pics, and then before you know it we had started a Bluesky and then later an Only Fans.

Mrs. Peach showing off her assets.

Mrs. Peach St. Patty’s Day celebration

Mrs. Peach, Lady in Red

Mrs. Peach – A Night in Paris

Mrs. Peach’s pretty peach

The thought of strangers being turned on by us to the point of masturbation makes us so hot.  This lead us to Match Cinder and Spark, we loved reading the stories out loud to one another but the ultimate is for Mrs. Peach to listen to the audio version while Mr. Peach pleasures her in every way possible.  This book is hot and sexy on so many levels and really gets us going!

Mrs. Peach getting off to Match, Cinder & Spark

What’s good for the Mrs. is good for the Mr.

Look  us up on Only Fans https://onlyfans.com/peachstatecouple , Blue sky https://bsky.app/profile/peachstatecouple.bsky.social , and instagram https://www.instagram.com/peach_state_couple?igsh=MXM5bnZoNWMzOGJ6cg%3D%3D&utm_source=qr

Follow along in our sexy adventures as we rediscover our love and passion after all that we have been through and survived.

Mrs. Peach in a sexy pose

Full Color Peach

Mrs. Peach submits in a Kajira position

Mrs. Peach sexy one-piece

Juicy, ripe, round peach

Peaches for the thirsty

Emphasize the positive!

So cute!

Lo’s favorite color!

Compare, contrast

Mrs. Peach does “The Bed Spread”

 

Mrs. Peach assets galore

Kinky plug, it glows in the dark!

Frills that thrill

Mr. Peach shows his appreciation for Mrs. Peach

Mr. Peach was given an assignment by Lo. Step 1: Go into Mrs. Peach’s panty drawer.

Step 2: Pick out sexy panties and put them on. (Look how hard he is!)

Step 3: Masturbate to Lola while Mrs. Peach is away.

Looks like Mr. Peach was happy to fulfill Lo’s commands.

Lo told him to cum for her.

Looks like he was happy to make Lo happy.

Almost there. Looks like Mr. Peach is a real ass man.

Just three strokes more and. . .

Success!

Don’t worry, he also jacks to Mrs. Peach too!

Thanks to Mr. and Mrs. Peach of Peach State Couple for this lovely cumtribution!