Lola Down: The Nympho Next Door

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Introducing Lola and HH, the Tempestuous Tandem, a daring couple who inspire and titillate their readers with their wild escapades and unconventional love story. Their passion for each other knows no bounds, with Lola, the insatiable nymphomaniac, serving as HH’s muse, while HH, her doting “Daddy,” is endlessly captivated by her vivacious spirit and unquenchable desires.

Their avatar is a provocative portrayal of their entwined personas, capturing the essence of their magnetic connection. Lola is depicted as a sultry, voluptuous figure, her curves accentuated by form-fitting, risqué attire. Her face remains a mystery, only adding to her enigmatic allure. HH stands tall beside her, his strong, protective presence symbolizing his devotion and desire to fulfill her every fantasy.

Together, they navigate a world of sensual adventures, engaging their followers and neighbors in their erotic exploits, leaving a trail of lust and desire in their wake. Lola’s fan mail is a testament to her undeniable magnetism, filled with salacious confessions and fantasies that would make even the most open-minded blush.

Their published works, a collection of torrid tales documenting their passion-filled journey, have captured the hearts and minds of readers everywhere. The Tempestuous Tandem continues to push the boundaries of conventional relationships, captivating their audience with their unapologetic exploration of desire and the endless possibilities of a love that knows no limits.

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Welcome to mysexlifewithlola – the blog about your everyday hotwife, nympho, exhibitionist and the man who loves her.

We are:

LOLA

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H.H.

H.H.

 

 

 

 

H.H. does most of the writing, Lola does most everything else.

If you’re interested in reading more about our sexploits together, check out the CHAPTERS here.

If you’re interested in seeing more of Lola, check out her GALLERY here.

If you want to submit pictures, comments, or a guest post story (fiction or otherwise) you can either do it here:

or you can write us directly at: downloladown@gmail.com

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Thanks,

H.H. & Lo

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“It’s a male myth about feminists that we hate sex.” – Maude Lebowski, The Big Lebowski

“Write about what you know.” – Anon.

“Write about what you love.”  H.H.

“Of all plots and actions the episodic are the worst.  I call a plot ‘episodic’ in which the episodes or acts succeed one another without probable or necessary sequence.  Bad poets compose such pieces by their own fault, good poets, to please the players.” – Aristotle

 

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111 thoughts on “Lola Down: The Nympho Next Door”

    • Thanks for your positive mncmeot. I have to say that I am myself a little wary of feminist beliefs especially when it comes to sex.Most people, including most men, eventually conclude that sex is a more rewarding experience when shared with someone they love or have feelings for.However, some men especially younger men, are able to enjoy sex as a physical pleasure regardless of any emotional relationship. So for example, some men will happily contemplate sex with a stranger just for the sexual pleasure.Of course, some women behave in a similar manner and I am certainly not disapproving of casual sex for anyone. A bit of lust and passion never did anyone any harm in my book (consenting adults naturally).My point though is that men experience easy arousal and fairly spontaneous orgasm through sex. Women are likely to have much more difficulty enjoying sexual arousal and orgasm with a partner.This is no one’s fault, either the woman’s or her lover’s. Sex is not designed to facilitate female orgasm since it is not required for reproduction. Women orgasm most easily through masturbation where they can provide their own clitoral stimulation and focus fully on sexual fantasy.Sex with a lover can still be great fun: sensual, physical and intimate. The emotional aspects can be exhilarating for both sexes but unfortunately sex is unlikely to be orgasmic for a woman.This has been the greatest disappointment of my life and yet this is being very spoilt. The fact is that many women never discover orgasm by any means either with a partner or alone. I have learned to make the best of the pleasures available. I enjoy orgasm alone and the joys of sensual intimacy with a lover.

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      • But some of us orgasm so frequently and so easily that God must have truly created us to be sluts and hot wives. Thank you Jesus 🙂

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        • Back in the day when sex was an important part of my wife’s life and of our marriage, her best and fullest orgasms, and the surest way to bring her to orgasm, were by genital intercourse, especially in the classic face-to-face, man-on-top position. Cunnilingus was more like a tantalizingly delicious appetizer to whet her hunger for the full meal. Self-stimulation? Almost never, for her. For me, on the other hand, multiple times a day, with or without intercourse.

          But mostly I’m reply because I want to say that I think the idea that “some men especially younger men, are able to enjoy sex as a physical pleasure regardless of any emotional relationship” is highly overrated. Some men, maybe. But I think for most men, young men included, sharing sexual pleasure with a partner CREATES an emotional relationship even where there was none to begin with. I think that emotional connection is at least as much of what men generally seek through sexual intercourse as the physical pleasure of it. If men are for the most part inherently more promiscuous than women, it is emotional promiscuity as much as sexual.

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  2. Very beautifully written blog, with ideas I wished were more widespread!

    I have two questions on which I wondered what your opinion and Lola’s would be.

    It is often said that women are ‘less sexual’ than men, in that women with high sex drives like Lola are much less frequent than men with similarly high sex drives. Is that so in the experience of the two of you — and what meaning would this fact have for religious (Tantric and otherwise) visions of sex? If one side wants it more than the other, does that not generate an imbalance between yin and yang, lingam and yoni?

    Another question concerns sexual fidelity. As your progress into sexual awareness and ‘sacred sexuality’, does sex become a freer gift to be shared with all, or does it remain part of a relationship predicated on the ‘specialness’ of a partner? It seemed to me, both philosophically and practically, that the combination of a high sex drive, individual self-esteem and liberation, and a religious view of sex as a door to a world of holiness, would lead naturally to multiple partners. Is that not so?

    Since I haven’t read all your blog posts yet, I understand you may have already answered such questions — you can then simply direct me to your texts, which I am sure I will read with interest.

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    • Dear Asehpe,
      Again I thank you for your most thoughtful questions. It is a common perception that women are “less sexual” than men. Certain studies show that this may in fact be the case. But those studies may be skewed due to social norms about gender and self-censoring that results. In other words, the results of the scientific research may be a self-fulfilling prophesy because of the predominance in the cultural psyche that men are more sexual animals than women. Whatever the case may be about the society at large and the science, anecdotally, I can tell you that until I met Lo I thought I was the most hyper-sexual person I had ever met. Unfortunately, I also happened to be rather inhibited about it and I rarely, if ever inquired of my peers how often they have sex, think about sex, or masturbate. But I can tell you that Lo outstrips me in every category. (Pun intended.) And, by her own admission, based on conversations she’s had with her girlfriends, she has more sex, thinks about sex more, and certainly masturbates much more than any other woman she has ever met. I have never met anyone – male or female – who orgasms on average approximately 5-8 times a day. Some days, it is true, it is only once or twice for her. But other days it can be as much as 20 orgasms (either self induced, or with the help of a partner). Given Lo’s incredibly hungry appetite for sex, she has cruised the internet for other like-minded and like-libidoed people. She has “met” a few guys who claim that they could cum 5-8 times during one session of sex, and that has intrigued Lo and whetted her desire, but thus far she has never met anyone – male or female – who could keep up with her.

      As to your application of this “imbalance” to the mystical Yin/Yang, Lingam/Yoni, it is to be kept in mind that even in Taoist or Tantra lore, there are imbalances that occur. Yang is ostensibly more powerful than Yin, but Yin, by virtue of its “weakness” is stronger than Yang. The classic example of this is the stone and the water. The stone (Yang) seems stronger than water, but water (Yin), in its supple nature can go right around the stone to get to its destination or, in time, it can wear away the stone. It’s also to be kept in mind that Yin is not all Yin but has Yang in it and Yang, of course, has Yin in it.

      As for your last question, the way I would phrase it is that the freedom of our sex (either with each other or with people outside our coupledom) is predicated upon the special bond we share with each other. Because we are in a relationship that is open – meaning a relationship of mutual trust, honesty, respect, love, support, challenge, and care – we are secure enough to have an “open relationship” in the more common sense of that phrase. However, having said that, I am completely content with Lo and feel no need for other partners.

      But, if you or anyone else would like to know Lo’s feelings on this or any other subject, feel free to write to her at: downloladown@gmail.com
      Or friend her on facebook at: Lola Down

      Thanks for the comments.

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  3. Lola what colourful character. Hh you really write some quality pieces i am really impressed. Would be interested if the stuff you write about are real of ficticious experiences your girlfriend has had.

    Keep writing your amazing

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    • Thank you for your kind comment. Mysexlifewithlola had its genesis in my doing an internet search for other guys in my position: a healthy sexual appetite, but matched with a woman whose desire outstrips his by a long-shot. I found that few men are in this predicament, or at least they don’t write about it much. I began researching in a serious way the history and science of nymphomania, and, as I think I explain in a number of entries, it seems to me that Lo is a certifiable nymphomaniac, or “hyper-sexual” (as the current terminology calls it).
      Finding little on the net that described my situation, I began writing about it and I found that the more I wrote, the more material I had to write – not only because of my past experiences with Lo, but because each entry I posted turned her on more. She would read them on the subway or at work on her smart phone and she would be all riled up all day long.
      Now, as to your specific question, a lot of people have asked me if Lo is a real person. I can assure all of you, Lo is a very real person of very attractive flesh and very hot blood. Some of what I include in mysexlifewithlola is “fictionalized” in order to protect her identity and mine. But the bulk of what you read is based upon fact. I would call it “faction.” Fact + fiction = faction. It is a factional story. Does that help?

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  4. hi HH thanks for the insightful response. Its amamzing how you have dedicated so much time to something you enjoy with a passion.

    I only wish more of us could take your stand. The subject of Nymphomani definatly floats my boat and I think you are write traditional research into wemens sexuality has been some what skewered to conform with social norms.

    You have a brilliant life and girlfriend thanks for your blogs hopefully these can serve as lesson to other humans to open up an dexplore thier sexuality as a spiritual fascet rather than something that is merely for reproduction.

    You see there quiet an interesting isalmic stance on the whole area around multip[le partners it si claimed by some islamic scholars that having multiple partners for a man actaully stimulates him to a higher being. When I say stimulate I mean in many ways socially, he’s thinking changes he becomes a lot more creative and posses the ability to think ”out side the box” he also sees situations in a totally different light.

    It also makes him more of a man, it strengthens his will and creates a real character.

    Unfortuantly there is no such opinion on what psychological effect multiple partners has on wemen. A shame!

    Thanks
    Tal

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    • hello tal , i was reading your comment and felt compelled to reply
      i’m a muslim girl and i think polygamy is disgusting and regressive
      its a very selfish act from a man that women feel threatened about throughout their marriage

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      • Really! But neither your prophet not you maulanas nor your Koran find it disgusting. Being married to 4 women is allowed in your religion, and nobody objects.

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  11. Ooh, really looking forward to reading this blog….
    Sometimes, I am distressed to think that I have a higher sex drive than my husband – but then at other times ecstatic to find that he matches mine…
    I am nearly 40! Wow what joys I have to look forward to!

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    • Dear Sophia,

      Is it ok that I call you Sophia? I’ve been reading and enjoying your blog. I’m going to suggest it to Lo. In many respects your relationship resembles that of Lo and me. It would be fun for the four of us to get together for drinks some time. If only.

      HH

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  12. What a great surprise to find a great couple that understand a healthy way to live, I believe sex is the most beautiful gift from our creator, of course respecting all thinkings, how wonderful is to enjoy sex in a high level of understanding, congratulations to all…

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  14. Very nice HH, sort of wish I had someone like you. thank you for stopping by and commenting and yes, I do enjoy reading about the sexual adventures of the sexually active, men and women. Again, thank you for the invitation.

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    • Dear Next Door Girl, feel free to use any of the pics on this blog on yours. You have a keen eye for beauty and I’m sure Lo would be flattered. Please just include a link to: mysexlifewithlola.com

      Thanks,

      HH

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    • I try to “keep it real,” though I occasionally worry that my drifting off into musings or self-contemplation may be a bit boring for some folk. Also, I’ve noticed that in comparison with other blogs I tend to be. . . how shall we say? Wordy? I mean posts of 6000+ words is redic!

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  20. Love your site! Shockingly similar situation in my life too! I love your insight into Lo’s mind, your understanding and diagnosis of her “Daddy issues”. Your posts have already helped me tons in understanding my girl’s polyamorous behavior. Added your site to my fav’s!

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  24. Thank you for calling by my space. The premise of your blog fascinates me, and I am anxious to learn more of your views and thoughts. Your comment about possibly needing to be “over 40” was quite intiguing, and it begged me to ask if we don’t conclude our gender or sexual “inquiries” a bit early and assume too much knowledge before we are ready. Wonderful content, my dear

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  29. I just found your blog. I love it. I am 54, look 45 and have the sex drive of a 35 year old. My web site is dedicated to married men who are in a sexless marriage. My wife (God bless her) and me have been together as of this June 27 1/2 years. Because of chemo therapy to beat 3rd stage break cancer……she is now cancer free and she got to keep her breasts. We made love and were sexual once a day. So that is once a day for like 23 years. Now in a sexless marriage my only sexual outlet is masturbation. Subscribe to my blog if you wish. I do not mean to offend but the blog has helped a lot of men. Keep up the great work. You’ll find pictures of me on my blog and various viewpoints of sexuality and marriage. Cheers, Lewis

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  32. mysexlifewithlola Pretty nice post. I just stumbled upon your blog and wanted to say that I’ve truly enjoyed browsing your blog posts. After all I will be subscribing to your feed and I hope you write again soon!

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  33. Well well, a table of contents, great idea.
    It took me a while to realize I what I was looking at on your image header. I saw another pic of your Bum on another post, so I guessed the pic is probably of you. Ballsy for sure 🙂
    Thanks for stopping by my blog.

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  45. I just wanted to thank Lola for her comment on my poem “Eyes”–I’m glad she liked it;) But of course, have discovered your blog and will continue to read with interest;)

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  46. Looking forward to exploring your blog. I am welcoming the opportunity of insight with regards to feminism and erotica. As a sensual, caring Dominant Man I am intrigued with the many paradoxes that (only seem to) exist within the dance of ourselves and with others. Arrived with a boner, staying for the wisdom & levity.

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  53. Hi,

    I’m only here briefly – my beautiful blog’s been deactivated. WP has temporarily allowed me to access my dashboard while I make a permanent shift to http://www.secretthots.com

    My ‘new’ blog is still a work in process… I hope to have it fully functional again by the end of summer.

    I just wanted to thank you for your encouragement in this experiment of mine – it meant a great deal to me. I wish you and Lola all the best in all you do – heart, mind, and soul.

    (the other) Lola xo

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    • I’m sorry Lola – We know exactly how horrible that is! We too were shut down, but with the help of our knight in shining armor – Michael – Molly’s hubby, we were able to relocate. It doesn’t look the way it should, but it’s a work in progress. Good luck!

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  64. Hi! I saw your interview on hotwifeblog. It’s was very interesting, then i read our blog, it’s more interesting and now, i’llbe happy to recieve pass and see your gallery.

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