Total Surprise!

We saw that Mike & Molly over at Molly’s Daily Kiss had published their annual Top 100 Sex Bloggers awards for 2018 and we had no expectation of being on it. We didn’t ask anyone to vote for us and we are very aware that our publishing is less than regular or frequent! But, nonetheless, there we were, pulling in just under the wire at #97!!!

We are thrilled! Thanks to Mike & Molly and all of you!!!

See the complete list with many of our friends on it here:

With Sexy Company

Just saw that mysexlifewithlola.com was included among the top 13 erotica sites for women! The best part about it is that the list includes so many of our favorite bloggers! Very glad to be among them!!!  Thank you!

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Top 10 Sexiest Writers on Medium.com

I have been posting on Medium for only four months now.

I just hit 3,000 followers! Thanks so much to all of you!!!

I still consider myself new to this medium — Medium. But, since I’ve been here I’ve discovered some really excellent, sexy, steamy writers.

Of course, HH is still my favorite and I post here because I want to share his stories of me with all of you. But, here are ten other Medium writers, in no particular order and without any scientific system for choice, that I have enjoyed over the brief time I’ve been around this neighborhood of the internet. The following is not based on number of claps, number of followers, or anything other than what has turned me on.

Another reason HH isn’t on this list is because I deliberately chose only female bloggers. HH is one of the only male erotica writers I read, but I love the ladies you’ll find in the list below.

If you’re a writer and think you should be on this list, maybe I just don’t know about you. Send a shoutout to me either in the comments or via email.

If you’ve been included here, please do the following: 1) Make your own Top 10 (or 5 or 3 or whatever); Include the medallion on your post/page; 3) Include a link back to this post. Thanks so much! ~ Lola

And the top ten are:

  1. Rose of MyErotica — Rose has done perhaps more than anyone to promote new erotica writers and get the word out about erotica on Medium. She’s a great writer and a generous soul.
  2. Ally Snow — Ally Snow has a unique and honest voice. She doles out advice and also is candid about her own mistakes in relationships. After reading her, you feel like you’ve sat with a close girlfriend for a coffee, chatting for a couple of hours.
  3. Mimi Bordeaux — A direct writer who comes at you straight on, though she’s far from straight! Her writing is like Hemingway if Hemingway was queer, a woman, and a hell of a lot more sexy!
  4. Vienna De Vega — A smart, witty writer who also is an avid reader and an unabashed enthusiast of all things kink.
  5. Kris Gage — I don’t know how old Kris is, but she has an old soul in the best sort of way. She speaks about love and relationships from a well of experience, both good and bad. Her insights into Buddhism are definitely worth reading.
  6. Madelaine Hanson — A witty, take-no-prisoners writer who is prolific and poignant. A staunch feminist with a pen!
  7. Jessica Wildfire — The professor is in and everyone is hot for teacher! Jessica’s writing is steamy and occasionally she shares amusing anecdotes from the trenches of higher education.
  8. Stoya — You may know her from porn, but she has always been one of the most well-read, intelligent, and feminist voices in the industry. Lately, to the benefit of us all, she has been using her voice by writing a lot. Anyone who can cite Bataille in a blog post on sex deserves kudos!
  9. Lacey Divine — Writing on open relationships, sex work, and orgasms. Can’t beat that!
  10. Alexis McCall — A hotwife, like yours truly, who writes about all different aspects of these complex relationships. Prolific, insightful, and a great resource!

These are only the top ten of literally hundreds of great writers out there. I apologize if I’ve left you out. For more great suggestions, just look at my “following” list.

xoxoxo,

Lola

Top 100 Sex Bloggers 2015

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Yay!  The indefatigable Molly, of mollysdailykiss.com has taken the time to take over where Rory of betweenmysheets.com left off and personally slogged through literally hundreds of sex blogs (a difficult job that someone has to do – and I’m sure you people reading this do it daily!) in order to produce the “Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2015” post.

Guess what?!  Not only are some of our best blogging friends up on the list, we are too!  This isn’t the Academy Awards, and we do have more than 45 seconds to thank people, but we’d like to thank you, the readers, the ones who voted for us, our fellow bloggers (you’re all awesome!), and Molly – a person who has helped so many in this slit of the bloggosphere in so many ways!   Thank you all!

Now, we return you to your regularly scheduled porn.

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Who are you going to vote for? Lola Down, of course!

Which voting is more fun?  This:

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or this: playboy cover

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

VOTE NOW, VOTE OFTEN! VOTING ENDS January 31st!

 

I know, with the presidential election inundating the media, the last thing you want to hear is a pitch of “Vote for me!”  But this is different.  This is casting a vote for the Best Sex Blogger of 2015 and I think that you should vote for mysexlifewithlola.com

There you have it, a completely shameless promotion. . .

I actually feel bad about this because last year we asked all of you good, lovely, and loyal readers to vote for us for Rory’s Top 100 sex bloggers – a list that we have made in the past.  And many of you (bless your souls!) did vote for us.

Well, unfortunately, Rory is retiring, but she is passing along the Top 100 to our good friend and esteemed sex blogger, Molly, of mollysdailykiss.com

Molly has been a tremendous support to us since early on and when we got shut down due to censorship, she was there to help us get back on our feet (or Lo on her back with her feet in the air).

So, be kind and vote for us again if you think we have great erotica writing, wonderful pics of Lola and friends, and, most of all, if you want to promote good dirty fun.  Thanks so much!!!!

VOTE FOR US HERE!

Lola & HH

 

9 Best Sites For Free Erotica

We want to send a very BIG THANK YOU to Emma McGowan for including us on her short list of 9 Best Sites for Free Erotica, Because Porn Doesn’t Cut It For Some of Us!!!!

Lo and I were away for a long weekend (new steamy stories will be posted at a later date) and when we got back we found, to our great surprise, a spike in our daily hits.  When looking over the stats, we discovered why – because we were in this article from Bustle.com.

We had not heard of Bustle before, but we sure will be checking it out.

We also want to congratulate the other great blogs listed – some of whom we’ve followed for years.  Congrats to:

Girl On The Net

Bree Guilford

and

Greta of Filled and Fooled

In addition to these long-time friends, there are three new authors for us to discover as well as one of Lo’s favorite places for masturbatory indulgences:

Literotica.com

Lastly, we would greatly appreciate it if you would take the time to vote for us as one of 2015’s Best Sex Blogs over at Kinkly.com  Here’s the link to vote in one simple click!  They say you only have until October 8.

And if you could nominate us for Rori’s Between My Sheets Top Sex Bloggers for 2015 as well, we’d really appreciate it!

Thanks so much.

Below is a pic of Lo getting off to literotica.com.  No, it doesn’t make me jealous to see her jillin’ it to some other person’s words.  No, not at all.  What gives you that idea?

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Hot Kiss Award

Well, this is very late in the game, but back in August Tangerine Dey presented us with the “Hot Kiss” award.

 

 

She said: Dear HH, Congratulations, you have been awarded the Hot Kiss Award. As recipient, please Link back to the blogger who nominated you.
Post the award image to your page.
Share 7 facts about yourself. (Not required but fun to do.)
Nominate 15 other blogs and inform them about it.

So, to follow through with the rules:

1.  Here is Tanga’s web page: http://tangerinedey.wordpress.com/

She is a lovely blogger on a range of topics with fiction and poetry included in a nicely laid-out page, easy to navigate, fun to read, always up-beat!  Thank you Tanga.

2.  Posted.

3.  I post so much about Lo and me in the blog I’ll just say, go ahead, read it.  If you need a password, don’t hesitate to send us an e-mail and ask.  (Please don’t just send an e-mail with no heading or content.  We’ll think it’s spam.  Say “Password Please” somewhere in the e-mail and, better yet, tell us about who you are and how you found us!)

4.  I’m so glad to nominate other bloggers, especially since I found so many great ones at Rori’s Between My Sheets nomination page for Top Sex Bloggers List 2012.  (I think that counts as one nomination.)

Here they are:

The Honest Courtesan – Frank commentary from a retired call girl.

One Handed Writers – I think the title says it all.

Guiltless Miss – A lot of hot and steamy writing here!

June: A woman who refuses to admit to being “too sexual.”

Not Changing My Name – Divorcee blogging about dating and so forth.

Love Small Penis – A fun little blog.

Womens Diary – Just what it says.

Vineyard Road – Erotic Stories and Drink Recipes.  What could be a better combination?

Pieces of Jade – A woman with her freak on – and proud of it!

 

I know, that’s only ten, but I’ll ask you, the reader, to nominate (at least) five more blogs in the comments section.  Thanks.

Two More on the Shelf

Much thanks to Alice of StoryofAlice  (subtitle: Alice’s Secret Sex Diary) and SarahAlice of The Adventures of An English Student (not to be confused with one another) for awarding our humble blog the “Meta Awesomest Blog” Award and the “Beautiful Blogger Award” respectively.

Here are the rules for the “Beautiful Blogger Award”:

The Rules

1. Include the award logo somewhere in your blog.

2. Answer 10 questions you have about yourself.  (I changed that a little.)

3. Nominate 10 to 12 blogs you enjoy. Or you pick the number.
4. Pay the love forward: Provide your nominee’s link in your post and comment on their blog to let them know they’ve been included and invited to participate.
5. Pay the love back with gratitude and a link to the blogger(s) who nominated you.
Alice simplified the rules for her award, saying “Answer some questions about yourself and spread the love.”
Here’s how I plan to go about following (or not) the rules for both these awards.  For the longest time now I have been jealous of blogs I read that have a “blog roll” or “blogs I follow” sidebar.  I want one.  Whomever comments on this page and tells me how to create one in WordPress first wins the “Awesomest Blogger Award” along with it ridiculous picture and poor grammar.  Then everyone who shows up in our new “blog roll” bar wins the “Beautiful Blogger Award” – even if you have won it before!
Lastly, can anyone tell us where SarahAlice has gone?  She seems to be missing.  She was blogging about a trip to D.C., but radio silence after that.  Concerned.
OK, here are our ten answers, you can guess the questions:
1.  In the shower.
2.  Four or five.
3.  Cinema Paradiso.
4.  Morning/Evening.
5.  All the time!
6.  Her ass.
7.  His cock.
8.  On the subway.
9.  Never.
10.  Love.
Thanks everyone,
Lo & HH
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