Bloggers Old & New

16 Sep


Lately a few of our close friends in the blogging community have posted about feeling the loss of our community.  We too have felt it.  We started mysexlifewithlola back in March of 2011.  2011!!!  We can’t believe it.  When we started, somehow – either we found them or they found us – we became part of a blogging family that supported each other and knew each others’ business in a good way.  We, new at this as we were, just thought that that community was around for a while and we were the new arrivals, but it turns out that most of our tight-knit group had all started around the same time.  That group included:





The Lovely Mistress                                                                                                anonymous fan submission1








And, of course, the ringmistress who brought us all together (as a number of you have noted recently), Gillian.

Connecting with me like this is ok too.


Unfortunately, when Gillian moved on (for lots of reasons), our group came a bit unraveled.  Three Cheers to Hy for her Boobday incentive to remain connected.  She has done a lot to keep us all connected.  Speaking for us, one thing that really took us out of the loop was the censorship exercised by WordPress when they shut us down.  As we’ve told many of you through e-mail, we no longer can comment on other WP blogs which means that we can’t publicly encourage or show our enthusiasm for all of you great bloggers out there.  It also means that others can’t see that we’re actively reading what you write, so they have no idea we’re part of the circle.

In order to combat all this disconnection, we invite you readers (old and new) to comment here by (Throwback) Thursday.  Just drop us a line saying ‘hi’ or let us know that you’re still in our loop.  Invite others to cum to your blogs.  And generally, try to make this more connected for everyone.  If you’re new and you have a blog or a Tumblr or whatever, let us know.  If you’re one of the “ole timers,” tell us what you’re up to – maybe we have lost touch.  If you’re a fan – check out all the people listed above and (especially for the ones who haven’t blogged in a long time) tell them you want MORE from them!!!  We sure do.

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Thanks so much everyone!



Lo & HH

12 Responses to “Bloggers Old & New”

  1. Cara Thereon September 16, 2014 at 3:28 pm #

    I try to get around and comment as many people as I can. It hard when people don’t blog as much as they used to either. It’ll get better I think with time.

    • Lola Down September 17, 2014 at 6:39 am #

      Well, darling, you are a special case. Like us, your blog has moved around a bit and so it’s not easy to keep the followers that way. Hopefully all your fans have found their way to your ‘new’ blog.

  2. 'Tis September 16, 2014 at 10:03 pm #

    Thanks for having me and making me feel welcome. I love your blog and appreciate the emails I receive from you guys regarding mine. I know that takes much more effort than if you could just comment on wp and don’t want you to think it goes unnoticed.


    • Lola Down September 17, 2014 at 6:38 am #

      Thanks ‘Tis! We look forward to each and every post from you!

  3. vicvista September 17, 2014 at 1:12 am #

    Love you two and read every post. They always make me smile. Also love it when you take the time to comment on mine. 😉

    ~ Vista

    • Lola Down September 17, 2014 at 6:37 am #

      Thank you Vic! We love you’re special brand of kink!

  4. Scarlett Dubois September 17, 2014 at 11:30 pm #

    Hi hi!!! Thanks for the email; we still need to have the coffee. Tell Lola I said hi and include a nipple flick with it. xxx

    • Lola Down September 18, 2014 at 1:00 pm #

      Will do!!! Thanks for continuing to blog, even if you feel like Vanilla ice cream.

  5. Dawn September 18, 2014 at 1:06 pm #

    Dear HH and Lo,

    Blogging is a strange thing.

    I never expected to be included in a group like we had before, but then when I was, I guess that I took that acceptance for granted. I like to think that I write solely for myself, a tidy outlet for my moods and desires….but then again, once I have the feeling that no one is listening anyway, I give up quite quickly.

    I need to get back with the program because I care about what you have to say and because I need to know that I am understood as well.

    Big Bisous,

  6. J & T The EroticExplorers September 18, 2014 at 1:44 pm #

    Hey guys, we’ve been avidly following you for about two years (what is the conversion for blog years into human years?). You, along with Hyacinth, were a huge inspiration and motivator for starting our own blog. We feel like we know you and although we were lurking in the shadows until just this past month, we feel as though we are a part of your community. Feel free to check us out on tumblr, we are eroticexplorers our intent is to tell the truth ( the good, bad and ugly) of our own adventure. Keeping it sexy is pretty fun too! Check us out if you’d like and know that we’re watching you!

    • Lola Down September 18, 2014 at 4:28 pm #

      So Good to hear from you! We’ll be having a post just for you soon!!!

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